Escape Velocity by Dean Gloster
It’s all about escape velocity.
“Aim for the moon. Even if you miss,
you’ll land among the stars.” I have a love-hate relationship with that aphorism,
because—while I love the sentiment—it’s based on sloppy physics.
Motivational slogans are like
people: We may all have a purpose, but sometimes that purpose is to serve as an
object lesson to others—exactly what not to do or be. A negative mentor,
as my brother Mark calls them.
This month’s topic is dreaming big
versus staying realistic, and the painful truth is, you should do both. And—even
more important—then put in the work to achieve the necessary velocity.
Escape
velocity: Without it, we don’t fling ourselves into space.
I’ve done lots of things for love or
money, and my current major pursuits are writing novels for young people and
opposing the contemporary fascist takeover of the United States, along with its
accompanying destruction of our Constitutional democracy. I have a better
handle on the former—writing novels—because, difficult as that is, at least I’ve
done it before.
But whatever your complicated or
creative endeavor, it starts with a dream—something so grand, so worthwhile, it’ll
inspire you to put in the effort it will take to get there. But to keep that from
being wasted effort, you also need to take realistic steps to achieve that
dream.
And it will take lots of effort and
lots of steps, more than you imagine. Almost anything worth doing, it
turns out, is hard. And putting in the hard work is where you get the most
benefit: you learn skills, sharpen your tools, find resilience, problem solve—which
help you in future projects and other areas in your life. You have to put in
the work.
I said this was a painful truth,
because—especially in creative endeavors—you’ll find your current skills may
not match the scope of your dreams. One of my favorite quotes is from Ira Glass,
on this aching disconnect:
Ira
Glass, spilling the tea on the pain of creativity
But you get better, and that just
increases your momentum. So get going, and work on that velocity.
Dean Gloster is a
former stand-up comedian and a former law clerk at the U.S. Supreme Court. His
debut YA novel DESSERT FIRST is out from Merit Press/Simon Pulse. His YA short
stories “Death’s Adopted Daughter” and "Proof of the Existence of Dog"
are in the anthologies Spoon Knife 6: Rest Stop and Spoon Knife 7: Transitions
from Autonomous Press. He is at work on two more YA novels, and the one he's
wrapping up now deals with opposing evil. (Which we should all do.) Despite his
exhortation about velocity, he is, sadly, S-L-O-W-L-Y revising his novel. He makes periodic
anti-authoritarian posts on Bluesky, where he is @deangloster.bsky.social
Ah, that latter, I wake up every morning struggling with how to effectively resist or foment change. Most days it's like nailing Jell-o to the basement wall in the dark with mittens on, but still, I persist.
ReplyDeleteMan, is that true--skills don't quite match the scope of the dreams. Seems I find skills need sharpening in some capacity every single time I start a new project.
ReplyDeleteWell said
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